2009年12月4日星期五

From "marry me~" to "divorce!!!" ???


4 December



last night, after a show, we stay wake until 2, dono why, then, before i went to sleep. i could heard some slidely fight between my parent. and i knw, that not just a simple fight.

then sadly, truely. there come a fight, on a morning, between my parent, in a car, roughly and rudely toward each other. They always had a fight, bt this time. they want an end of it, divorcement.

A married that did nt have God as a basement can't hold up long if they did not tolerate with each other or sharing everything they had face in their day life.

truely. i still remember a pastor ever say:" dun say i luv you to girl, if you are nt going to marry her" this is true.

let say, there is a couple. when the boy/girl fall in love with each other, they give a part of their heart to each other. so if they are nt going to marry each other, they break up. hardly their heart break and they still missing each other even when they did nt love each other anymore. for the heart has been given and been shared a part.

Get what i saying, so to those who are like my age, im giving an advice, to you, to nt step in a relationship to earlier, for an earlier relationship, maybe bring you happiness for short time, bt it also bring you sorrowness that hurt for a life time.

divorcement of my parent, make me knw that marrige wasn't that simple. it need tolerate from each other, im glad that i haven't step in into something wrong that would make me regret for the rest of my life yet, I must be strong by nw, strong in God.

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